dear man#9
Don’t talk too much about yourself and do not try to get yourself into midpoint all the time.
Especially when she is talking about some other guy (maybe to provoke but maybe just to tell you a funny story!). Please save yourself from words like: “but ME, I’m NOT that kind! I’m MUCH better than all the guys you are talking about, MANY people already has told me that! blablabla! I’m not an asshole, I’m not that stupid, I’m not touching any drugs, I’m your mothers perfect son-in-law! blabla.” ?!
what a waste of words. making everything worse. she will stop being interested in you immediately. girls don’t want the perfect son-in-law. but they also don’t want a rebel who is repeating that he REALLY IS ONE all the time. “I’m not that perfect mama’s boy, you know, I’m such a rebel, you know, I don’t care anyhow yeah, because I’m soooo fucking independent, blablablabla.” It’s the same. Nobody care what you are saying about yourself if it doesn’t fit the truth. So stop to describe yourself because nobody asks!
She wants to get her own personal picture of you in her head.
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